Blames and Excuses – A great couple

Person B says, “We have destroyed you.”

You have mainly two ways to respond to that.

1. REACTIVE : This is so bad. DO I really deserve it? What have I done? What can I do now?

That puts you in the victim zone. Circle of concern is the bigger circle. Circle of influence is the inner concentric circle which you can control.

2. Proactive: You observe the comment. You take full responsibility of your life. You know that you are not a victim. You focus on the circle of influence. You prepare for the circle of concern.

The moment you give excuses and blame someone, you are giving something external your own personal power.

Rather look at the obstacle and see what you have learned from it. How you can take better decisions in future.

So, nothing is a waste if we learn from any event constructively.

But if you hold on to grudges, if you let people do the same thing to you, it’s not empathy of compassion anymore.

Set your boundaries and let them know.

Your peace of mind is important. So say,

“I can reconstruct me again and again.”

Because,

Happiness is your BIRTHRIGHT..

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